I love making lists, it’s the over accomplisher, slightly OCD side of me. I make lists for groceries, to-do’s and fun stuff. I have a list of goals too! And it’s January so let’s talk about goals. Rather let’s talk about ONE goal.
Over 80% of individuals make resolutions every year, that they quit on by the end of January. Why? Resolutions are made to be quit on, compared to goals that are made to be achieved. I invite you to trash your list of resolutions immediately, if you’ve made one. Resolutions come out of frustrations, social pressures and guilt from over indulging during the holidays, that’s why they don’t stick. Your ego comes up with resolutions, your authentic self comes up with the goals.
Goals are dreams with a game plan attached, which makes them more likely to come to fruition. Goals also have a true intention.
For example, a lot of individuals will plan on losing weight gained thanks to Mr Cookie and Lady Champagne. Do we want to lose weight to be healthier? To please our mate? To fit the social standards? The intention will define the outcome. Making a decision based on what other people will think will likely bring resentment and frustration. Setting a goal based on our core belief will fuel us to meet, if not surpass, that goal.
We don’t always meet our goals, we need to tweak the game plan, and that’s alright. That’s part of the process of getting better at whatever we learn to do. Be kind to yourself, be patient. All successful individual have one thing in common: they don’t quit, when it gets hard.
I invite you to:
-Set ONE goal that resonates with your true self
-Make a game plan, measurable, achievable, rewarding
-Reevaluate and tweak as needed
-Treat yourself when you reach your goal (very important)
By setting one goal at a time, you’re more likely to stay focused and make better use of your energy and headspace.
Change is hard, it is achievable with the proper method and intention though. You can do it!
Reach for the greatest version of yourself!