If you follow my blog, you already know that I purchased a new-to-me car a few months ago. She rocks my socks off and she’s been so good to me so far. One thing I learnt about used cars is that they develop some personality traits after a few years. So when my Sterling decides to flash one way or another, or the door doesn’t shut for 24 hours, I just let it go. It never lasts, she’s having a moment, that’s all.
Her moment the other day was to have the clock reset itself to zero. I put the clock back to the right time once, I let it go the second time. I reflected on why I need a clock in my vehicle when I already practice perfect timing, I’m never late and I have the time on my phone anyway.
I grew up in an hostile and violent environment. One of the consequences of that childhood as an adult is working towards staying away from unsafe environments and developing some overly controlling tendencies. I work at letting stuff go,almost everyday.
The clock in my car only reminds me that it took me 30 minutes instead of 15 to get to my destination. It’s a constant reminder that it can be challenging driving around a million people metropolis.Sometimes the clock reassures me that I’m on time, that being said, I’m always on time. I’d rather focus on being confident rather than needing reassurance. The first is power, the second is passive.
Being reassured has it’s place, it can be important. In the case of time, and my clock, I don’t find it necessary.
So where is your power? Your power is in realizing what you can’t change and stepping into what you can change.
You can’t change the weather, people’s impression of you or the fact that you will die one day. I invite you to spend time as little time as possible on those items.
What do you have power over? Your attitude, your goals and the company you keep. I invite you to spend as much time as you’d like on those items.
So the clock in my car is blank, I now have more head space to focus on my purpose 🙂
Reach for the greatest version of yourself!
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